it is very easy to married but,
very difficult build good family,
very difficult control children,
from children start the human,
human character have problem,
from children until the old age,
good teach make person better,
bad teach make person worse,
some learn and some not learn,
some change, some not change,
human are not: perfect + good,
only GOD is good and perfect,
GOD the Creator of all destiny,
GOD created human's destiny,
GOD control destiny + happen.